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To be or not to be...

...in this case, it is not the question but rather the answer.

Today in Church a talk was given that brought up something important to me.  I am a "list person".  I have so many lists, because that is how I stay organized.  The most frequent list I make is a to-do list, generally before I go to bed for the next day (yes, I still have nightly planning sessions, hahahaha, picked that up from the mission!).  But in this talk, the speaker talked about how we like to-do lists because we can check things off as we finish.  But have we ever thought about a "To be" list?  So that got me thinking.  And tonight for my scripture study, I was pondering over this and decided that I also needed to make a "Not to be" list.  And these are lists that will stay with me for life, as I will never be perfect and will always be working on becoming more like Christ.  Because that is the ultimate goal of a "to be" list.  So here is the result of my study:

To be:

  • happy
  • patient- with myself, others, and the Lord's timing
  • spiritual
  • humble
  • trusting in God- His will above my own
  • selfless- serve others always
  • obedient & a covenant keeper
  • willing
  • charitable & kind & loving
  • faithful and believing
  • temple-going
  • dedicated & diligent
  • a hard worker
  • honest
  • a missionary always
  • aware of priorities
  • involved in family history
  • hopeful
  • virtuous
  • a seeker of knowledge and truth
  • worthy of the Spirit
  • eternal-minded
  • a disciple of Christ  (3 Nephi 5:13)
Not to be:
  • selfish
  • prideful
  • judgmental
  • perfectionist
  • impatient
  • lazy
  • disobedient
  • defiant
  • envious or jealous
  • pessimistic
  • a bad example
  • concerned with man's opinion of me
  • sinful
  • contentious
  • worldly
  • short-tempered
  • doubting
  • weary in doing good
  • hesitant to follow a prompting
  • ignorant
And I'm sure I'll continue to add to these lists.  But this is what's going up on my wall right now as a daily reminder to try a little harder to be a little better each day.  

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