I love you so much it hurts... We've all heard this phrase, many of us have said it, but how often do we think about it? Tonight I was just thinking about this. What does it even mean, to love someone so much it hurts? Does it mean that love=hurt? Nope. Here's what I think. Loving someone so much it hurts means you feel it when they hurt. When they are sad, you genuinely feel sad. When someone hurts them, you feel personally wounded or hurt as well. You feel what they feel. It goes the other way, too. When they are happy, you are too. When they accomplish something, you feel proud! It all goes back to Genesis, in the Garden of Eden. You really and truly become one, feeling each other's joys and pains, and you work through things together.